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Written on July 3rd, 2009
Matt asked everyone here if they agreed to the terms, which are simple: don’t steal material, and have some goddamned sense.
If we will all just do that, everyone should get along fine, yo.
Don’t go out of your way to be a dick (or a bitch) unless you are cool with being attacked, yourself. This is for sure a lesson I learned the hard way a long time ago, and I can absolutely dish it out as well as take it, but I have NOT dished it out on here. I really haven’t. Or, not like I used to. Still, though, some people want to call me out for stupid shit and I am gritting my teeth and trying to be cool. Being the self appointed Ambassador of Diplomacy kind of sucks. I think I’m over it.
If someone writes something you disagree with, I think most people are fine with you saying so, as long as you do so respectfully. Saying, “I feel differently” or even “I disagree with you” is fine. Telling someone they are stupid and ignorant because they happen to disagree is childish and retarded. Threatening them with a prison style tea bagging, even in jest, is just silly.
If you write something controversial, you can bet your ass that people will line up to disagree. And none of you are stupid, so you surely expect that. I have thought about writing an entry about why I am pro-abortion, but just don’t feel like opening that particular can of worms. If I DID, however, I would certainly expect a LOT of disagreement, if not flat out anger. I would have no right to then get mad at the people who felt I was wrong, when I knowingly wrote something that I KNEW would upset folks. Ya dig?
Lunamor is one of my favorite people on the planet, and she and I disagree all the time. We have argued, politely and respectfully, about all kinds of shit. We can do this because we both have some sense, and both make good points. Unfortunately, her points are usually better than mine, but then, she is a bitch.
Play nice, kids. We have a very cool thing going here at KCL and it would be a goddamned shame if people left or deleted because their feelings got hurt by a bully. I am unaware of this happening, or of anyone leaving (except Xanadu, and the door was politely held open for her upon her departure, then locked behind her).
Example of why KCL is awesome: our Betty was able to write about her poor husband being terribly sick, and she KNEW that she would get a lot of positive feedback from the good folks here. She did, of course, and I hope it made her feel better. That’s just the sort of place this is–we got it all. You gotcher tit shots, and your discussions of “testing it first”, and people have fun with it. But, you also have serious discussions and heartbreaking revelations.
If we are not respectful to each other then all that goes to shit, so everyone just Be Cool.
If you happen to be blissfully unaware of the latest round of foolishness, don’t ask me to point you in the right direction. Trust me–you missed nothing. Hopefully it will all go away and everyone involved will get back to doing what they do best, and HOW they do it best, whichever way it is that they enjoy.
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Comment Number: 1963
. Left by dsl64
on July 3rd, 2009 - 1:20 pm
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I dig it. |
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Comment Number: 1968
. Left by Westy
on July 3rd, 2009 - 1:42 pm
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once again I seemed to be spared the drama…. I think. There will ALWAYS be spoil sports anywhere *sigh* |
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Comment Number: 1970
. Left by simon
on July 3rd, 2009 - 1:43 pm
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The reason KCL is such a tightly knit community is a common bond of fear, arising from the private message each of us is sent by you threatening us with death if we attempt to leave. |
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Comment Number: 1971
. Left by thelioness
on July 3rd, 2009 - 1:44 pm
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Very well said, EF. Your Ambassador of Diplomacy title is secure. |
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Comment Number: 1972
. Left by KIT
on July 3rd, 2009 - 1:47 pm
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Well said Madam Ambassador - you are clearly well qualified for your job; |
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Comment Number: 1973
. Left by Larry Lea Odom-Groh
on July 3rd, 2009 - 1:50 pm
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What brought this on? |
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Comment Number: 1974
. Left by Sound Echo
on July 3rd, 2009 - 2:00 pm
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I just woke up. No, really, like half an hour ago, so I am blissfully unaware as to what was said by who and to whom it was said and blahblahblahblahblah. I think i’m still half asleep or someone spiked my tea, cause I just had way too much fun typing blahblahblahblah cause I figured out a rhythm in which to type it. Sad? oh yeah. Anyway, well said. |
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Comment Number: 1975
. Left by summerwind
on July 3rd, 2009 - 2:27 pm
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Well said, EF. I am so glad you carry this title. Let everyone behave. =) |
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Comment Number: 1976
. Left by lunamor
on July 3rd, 2009 - 2:27 pm
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“Unfortunately, her points are usually better than mine, but then, she is a bitch.” BAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! God, I love this woman. |
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Comment Number: 1977
. Left by jahm
on July 3rd, 2009 - 3:14 pm
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Can’t we all just get along, damn it! |
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Comment Number: 1978
. Left by Evilfury
on July 3rd, 2009 - 3:49 pm
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Luna, you know goddamned well you are a bitch. Oh sure, you may be beautiful and smart and funny and have fab hair, but deep down, you are a bitch. |
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Comment Number: 1979
. Left by jahm
on July 3rd, 2009 - 3:53 pm
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Where you doing it while you were on the phone? Cause I just hung up with you like 30 mins ago and you were going to feed the baby. Oh wait… Matt was the baby this time! Nice. |
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Comment Number: 1980
. Left by Evilfury
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:07 pm
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It was 40 minutes ago, you fucker, and it was MY turn to be the baby. |
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Comment Number: 1981
. Left by lunamor
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:12 pm
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Oh, it’s really not all that deep down, lol. |
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Comment Number: 1982
. Left by Evilfury
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:14 pm
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Luna, again, that’s why I love you. |
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Comment Number: 1983
. Left by jahm
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:20 pm
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Matt drew fist blood, not me… albeit a month ago. |
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Comment Number: 1984
. Left by lunamor
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:24 pm
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*biting tongue, er, fingers* |
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Comment Number: 1985
. Left by Lermontov
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:33 pm
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I missed it - but, whoever offered the teabagging gave me a laugh! |
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Comment Number: 1986
. Left by Evilfury
on July 3rd, 2009 - 4:37 pm
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**Evil consults her crystal ball, and sees Lerm receiving a good teabagging sometime this weekend by a beautiful blond** |
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Comment Number: 1987
. Left by Blackbird
on July 3rd, 2009 - 5:01 pm
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I agree with this post. LOL |
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Comment Number: 1988
. Left by jahm
on July 3rd, 2009 - 5:06 pm
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Evil, I think you need to google “teabagging” wait you don’t know how to do that do you? Hold that thought. |
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Comment Number: 1989
. Left by jahm
on July 3rd, 2009 - 5:08 pm
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“Borrowed” from the Urban Dictionary (wouldn’t want to violate the code): 1. teabagging 9016 up, 1308 down love it hate it April 13, 2009 Urban Word of the Day Me and Jen were teabagging last night when her mom walked in. Awkward. |
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Comment Number: 1990
. Left by Fake Brunette
on July 3rd, 2009 - 5:10 pm
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snigger teabagging thats going to open up a whole new train of conversation |
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Comment Number: 1991
. Left by Evilfury
on July 3rd, 2009 - 5:42 pm
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I had no idea “teabagging” was strictly a practical joke. |
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Comment Number: 2017
. Left by rebeloctane
on July 3rd, 2009 - 7:22 pm
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Must you use caps when talking about laid…I’m crushed you don’t feel for some of us *coughing* who don’t get LAID let alone get LAID BIG TIME…I’m not sure I’m going to be able to click on those ads now that I’m upset (perhaps you could send Jahm over to help me bounce quarters off my sheets?) |
